By Nina DiSesa
Truth no 1: 40 years after the feminist revolution, fewer than 2 percentage of Fortune one thousand CEOs are women.
Fact #2: The taking part in box isn't really level.
Fact #3: you must recover from this.
Chairman of the flagship workplace of the most important advertisements corporation community on the planet, Nina DiSesa is a grasp communicator, a ceiling crasher, and a big-time realist. In Seducing the men Club, DiSesa exhibits you ways S&M–seduction and manipulation–is the key to profitable over (and surpassing) the massive men. She asserts that ladies have to meld their “female” features (nurturing, compassion, instinct) with “male” qualities (decisiveness, concentration, self assurance, humor) to extend their expert horizons. DiSesa additionally stocks her functional, outrageous, or even arguable maxims for making it, including
• learn how to savour males. males like ladies who like them.
• keep in mind that ladies are biologically stressed out to succeed.
• to be able to make a reputation for your self, discover a mess and attach it. a safe and cozy activity simply holds you back.
• Act courageous and you'll glance brave.
• Screw the principles. Make up your own.
Whether dead-on humorous or lethal severe, DiSesa is usually on her video game, consistently on message, and totally on course as she palms ladies (men, too!) with the can-do self belief and no-compromises perspective they should climb as excessive as their ambition can hold them–while conserving their criteria impeccable and their integrity intact.
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